Sahih Bukhari 5255 [2021] (TRUSTED)
: While the phrase "give me yourself as a gift" was used, Islamic law (based on this and other narrations) clarifies that the Prophet (ﷺ) was seeking a formal marriage.
: Other reports indicate that some of the Prophet's other wives may have playfully or mischievously advised her to say that phrase as a way to gain his favor, not realizing it would lead to her dismissal. sahih bukhari 5255
Imam Bukhari placed this hadith in the chapter titled: "Should a man tell his wife face to face that she is divorced" . : While the phrase "give me yourself as
(Umaima bint an-Nu’man), offering profound insights into Prophetic character, the sanctity of personal consent, and the legal protocols of divorce Summary of the Hadith According to the narration on Sunnah.com (Umaima bint an-Nu’man)
The Prophet did not take offense but recognized that the marriage could not proceed under such discomfort or lack of mutual respect. He immediately stepped out to Abu Usaid and gave clear instructions to ensure she was returned home with dignity: